10 Gifts for a New Mom… From a Mom of 4
Becoming a mom is one of the most beautiful—and exhausting—seasons of life. As a mom of 4, I know firsthand how overwhelming those first weeks can feel. That’s why choosing the right gifts for a new mom matters so much. She doesn’t just need more baby blankets or onesies—she needs thoughtful, practical, and encouraging gifts that help her rest, recover, and feel cared for. In this post, I’m sharing my top 10 gifts for a new mom, handpicked from my own experience of what truly makes a difference during the postpartum season.
But first… I love a baby shower. Really, I love any shower (baby shower, couple’s shower, bridal shower). Showers are a special time to celebrate a new season for a loved one, and in the South, we really love our showers. There is nothing better than a floral arrangement surrounded by an ornate spread of coffee punch, petit fors (it’s like eating sugar coated air), cakes, fruit and dips, miniature quiches… I could go on and on.
While these gifts may not generate Ooos and Ahs from the ladies in attendance, they are gifts that will be remembered for their kindness and thoughtfulness.
A Doordash gift card. This has become my go-to gift for new parents. There is nothing better than that post-pushing meal, and having a special treat makes the experience even better. This is also a great couple gift. My husband loved picking out restaurants to order from when we were in the hospital. A Doordash card can be used when the new parents come home and have a night when they are too tired to cook or just need a break.
Mom and baby matching set. I never did this for myself and my babied, but if I had the chance to redo it, I would. A matching robe and sleeping set feels indulgent, and it is a great way to help a mom feel special. Bonus, it also makes for cute pictures. I love these sets from Caden Lane.
Anything personalized. While we’re on the topic of indulgent, anything personalized feels like a great gift, especially for the mom who is having her second or third baby (or more). When I had my first baby, I received numerous handmade blankets and monogrammed items for the baby. However, the more children I had the less personal items I received. A blanket or item for the baby feels special, and if they are anything like my kids, the baby will use the blanket or gift for years. If you cannot make something, Caden Lane has great options here.
Travel Toiletry Bag. I have something similar to this bag, and I have been using it for years. It holds toiletries, makeup, jewelry, is easy to carry around, and can hang on a bathroom door to save counter space. This is a great gift and frees up space in your overnight bag. It also helps keep everything in one place… a plus when you are searching for something in the dark at 2am and trying not to wake the baby.
Two piece set. Moms do not often think about putting something for themselves on a registry. Be the friend who thinks about mom’s need to feel put together and comfortable post giving birth. A soft set like this is soft enough for postpartum recovery, but also appropriate for receiving visitors.
Frida Mom Labor and Postpartum Gift Set. God bless the people at Frida. When I had my first baby, I had no idea what a peri bottle was or why I would need so many maxi pad ice packs. I found this kit when I was pregnant with my second baby, and it has been perfect for postpartum recovery. It is a little pricey, so this would be a great gift to split with a friend.
Snacks for mom. I had my first baby during Covid. As a result, we were not allowed visitors. Before going to the hospital, my mom brought us a basket full of Cheez-its, cookies, protein bars, and all kinds of goodies. If you cannot make it to the hospital, a basket of snacks for mom, dad, and even the siblings, will do wonders and help mom remember to eat.
A new cup and electrolytes. Do I have three emotional support Simple Modern water bottles? Yes. Could I use another one? Absolutely. I did not realize how thirsty I was going to be or how much water I was going to need after having my baby. Pair a new water bottle or cup with LMNT electrolytes (my favorite flavor is Lemonade Salt), and your new mom will remember to stay hydrated.
Cleaning/laundry service. This is a gift you want to run by the new mom first, but a great gift would be to pay for someone to clean her house or do her laundry. We paid a friend to clean our house while we were in the hospital with Baby #4, and it was so relaxing to come home to clean floors and freshly scrubbed bathrooms.
Grocery Membership. Someone gifted us with a Walmart + membership after we had one of our babies, and let me tell you, that is a gift that keeps giving. We have consistently used it for gas discounts and grocery delivery. Again, check with the Mom about this gift, but you could offer to pay for a year membership or renew a subscription for her.
**Bonus: Consider gifting a Mom with Prenatal/Postpartum Coaching. Moms are often hesitant to invest in themselves, but a gift like this demonstrates her mental and emotional health are worth the investment.
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